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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • I’m sure plenty of users on Lemmy are cute! I know I’ve seen some people post who look quite nice. Personally, I’m fairly attractive, but I’m also a straight cis man who doesn’t want to be a cat girl. I’m sure some of the people who want to be cat girls are cute too! You certainly won’t find them if you’re so negative though.



  • .ml doesn’t influence Lemmy much. Lemmy.world is the largest instance by far, and they leverage that control to force things on the larger Lemmy community. ml has issues, but at least they don’t force things on anyone else. The lead developer of Lemmy is there, so they could, but they don’t.

    Anyway, the point is that Lemmy is only as safe as it is diversified. People should be joining smaller instances, and communities created on other instances, rather than just going to the largest one.



  • I agree, but also black for coffee isn’t just describing the color. It’s describing the character. Sugar doesn’t change the color, but that isn’t black coffee. Black for coffee is a label/category, not a description.

    It’s still stupid to be scared to call it black, just as it’s stupid to be scared of calling black people black. It’s a common term that everyone understands, and it isn’t an insult.