My POV is this: if you decide to do this,do it for yourself without expectations for gratitude after. Because you might not get this,maybe friendship will finish,maybe other things happens. So to have peace in heart,treat it as gift,not investment to get dividends- once gifted it’s forgotten. Must done with open heart.
And to find out if it’s exactly that way- imagine now how would you feel if after operation Kevin never responds your call and cuts contacts.
Best of luck whatever you decide.
My POV is this: if you decide to do this,do it for yourself without expectations for gratitude after. Because you might not get this,maybe friendship will finish,maybe other things happens. So to have peace in heart,treat it as gift,not investment to get dividends- once gifted it’s forgotten. Must done with open heart. And to find out if it’s exactly that way- imagine now how would you feel if after operation Kevin never responds your call and cuts contacts. Best of luck whatever you decide.