• 0 Posts
  • 5 Comments
Joined 2 years ago
cake
Cake day: February 20th, 2025

help-circle
  • LastYearsIrritant@sopuli.xyztoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•True love
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    16
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    5 hours ago

    USUALLY the same thing happens when women date much younger men.

    It’s about power, not about gender. People with a lot of experience and resources prey on people who have very little.

    If someone is 60 and dating someone who is 30, that’s usually ok (a little weird in my opinion tho) cause someone who is 30 is fairly mature and can understand what’s going on, and usually has friends, a career, and a lot of stability in their lives.

    If someone is 40 and dating someone that’s 20… it doesn’t matter what the gender mix is… the 20 year old is going to have a lot of trouble pushing back when things are wrong. The 20 year old isn’t emotionally, or FINANCIALLY able to break away as easily. It’s not misogynistic to say that a very young person (female or male) might end up in a situation they feel like they can’t leave.