Just as the title says, tell me your most recent dream and I will perform a dream analysis of dubious distinction. Trust me I’m an expert.

  • AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip
    3·
    12 hours ago

    I think the last one I had, or at least had stuck with me, is a weird one. So, to start, it’s completely unrealistic since I know my dad would neved act like he did in the dream… outside of when I was a child and he was either playing with me or trying to calm me down.

    Yeah, so the parts I remember are my room having LED lights around the edge of the ceiling, purple-ish pink. It was soft lighting. Room was arranged how it was back when I had the dream. So, the parts I remember is my dad coming in and rubbing his beard all across my stomach, shirt up, despite me telling him to stop repeatedly. I couldn’t stop him.

    Next part I remember is them being in a car, behind my mother who was driving, my oldest brother in passengers seat. We were in a tunnel with that same purple colour lighting it up. We talk about what happened because dream me found it traumatic. I remember the conversation ending with me being told and agreeing that I should talk to my father about what happened, followed by leaving the tunnel and the dream ending.

    Not the craziest dream I’ve had, but yeah.

    • CapuccinoCoretto@lemmy.worldOP
      3·
      11 hours ago

      Analysis: Your subconcious is drawing parallels between when your dad would blow raspberries on your belly and you would laugh as a child, vs when you grew too old for that and just hated the scratchy beard and the invasion of personal space. It stopped being funny long ago.

      You dream of a transition because you are at another part of your life that is fundamentally different than the one before, and a major figure in your life, not necessarily your dad, still treats you like the old you, not the current you. You’ve acknowledged that you have to take control of the situation and get the offending forces in your life to respect who you now are and how you expect to be treated. Could be family, a boss at work. It’s not clear who or how, but it is clear you’ve grown and others haven’t kept up.