They/them preferred, but I won’t be mad if you forget :). Retired programmer. Many health conditions. If I’m uncharacteristically grumpy, I probably have a migraine.

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  • It’s a symptom of overwork. People are too tired to exist outside of work, so they actually are forced to buy the coffee / chai latte / whatever. Without the drink they can’t get through the day. Then they’re too tired to make lunch so they have to buy the $10 bagel. Then they need to order dinner because no fucking way are you going to the grocery store or preparing anything after a 996 shift. Then you lose consciousness on the couch and repeat tomorrow

    It’s essentially another form of income tax; the higher paying your job the more you have to pay in human fuel

    It’s also one of those weird networking obligations too, where if you skip too often, people notice


  • Zarobi@aussie.zonetoMemes@sopuli.xyz•1920s vs. 2020s
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    4 days ago

    The learning only lasts as long as people remember. At some point, all the people who became (or were raised by) middle-class will be gone

    We already see this with Zoomers / Gen Alphas. They don’t give a fuck, because they grew up watching both their broke-ass millennial parents somehow working their asses off full time while still taking it up the ass by the economy. Love them disillusioned little gremlins



  • The problem is that it’s a slippery slope. Batman doesn’t want to be the type of person who kills; that’s the line he’s drawn in the sand, for better or worse. If you justify killing just the Joker, what about the next supervillain that shows up? And the next one? Suddenly you’re just killing every one of them, because it’s easier

    Plus there would be a lot more public scrutiny. He gets away with a lot of shit I think partly because he doesn’t actually kill anyone. The police actually mostly work with him not against him; I think that would change if he has a huge body count






  • Zarobi@aussie.zonetoComic Strips@lemmy.world•Slow Drivers
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    7 days ago

    You’re making that exact same fundamental attribution error, just at one layer deeper. Instead of assuming that they’re a bad driver, you’re assuming that it was their personal choice to buy that car. We don’t know anything about their life situation, or their circumstances.

    Here’s some example outside factors to ponder:

    • Financial issues; it’s the only car they could afford
    • They got scammed at an auction via undisclosed mechanical issues and are in the process of correcting the issue
    • They’re driving their friend’s car home after taking them to hospital
    • The car spontaneously developed this issue out of nowhere
    • If they go above 20mph, the bomb will explode

  • Dishes are a unique kind of chore, with a huge possibility for resentment, not just a “shared chore”. Most who have lived long term with another knows how it goes

    • The mess is in a (usually) small living space (kitchen). You can’t really avoid the dishes or work around them. Dishes make it very frustrating to work in that environment
    • At a certain point it becomes impossible to prepare new food to eat; it’s not something you can put off forever, it has a strict time limit
    • Dirty dishes are really gross, both visually and olfactorily, and attract pests
    • Other people’s mess directly affects your life and health in a very real way
    • The longer you leave it, the harder it is to clean
    • Often, one person has a different standard of “clean” than the other; they might not even realise there is a problem
      • This can lead to controlling or other toxic behaviour

    That’s why what usually ends up happening is some combination of these:

    • Frequent commands (increasingly not-gentle reminders) to clean up
    • One person does all the dishes forever, constantly, becoming a taken-for-granted dish slave until burnout (this was me with my ex)
    • Frequent “discussions” about the state of cleanliness

    No matter which side of the interaction you’re on, you’re likely to encounter resentment. Either for being constantly nagged about something you don’t see as a big deal, or annoyance because you forgot just a few times and feel undeserved scrutiny, or frustration because the other person never cleans at all

    Compare this to, say; taking the trash out, laundry, or tending the plants. It’s not even close in terms of how much another’s actions impact your physical or mental health


  • Zarobi@aussie.zonetoComic Strips@lemmy.world•Slow Drivers
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    8 days ago

    In social psychology, the fundamental attribution error is a cognitive attribution bias in which observers underemphasize situational and environmental factors for the behavior of an actor while overemphasizing dispositional or personality factors. In other words, observers tend to overattribute the behaviors of others to their personality (e.g., he is late because he’s selfish) and underattribute them to the situation or context (e.g., he is late because he got stuck in traffic).